I think it depends on the object. For tangible objects, we use "experience with". For more abstract objects, we use "experience in". Examples: I have experience with children I have experience with pets She has experience with elderly patients Have you got experience with large machines? I have experience in management She's got experience in marketing Do you have experience in negotiation? I want to gain experience in translation

In (preposition) something is around, surrounding you With (preposition) joined/accompanied by something

It can be vatied with certain condition.

برای عبارات ملموس از اولی و برای عبارات ناملموس از دومی استفاده می کنیم