It is enough hard for me to find the one who loved had broke my trust. and cannot take it anymore. once he broke, everything we had share fade away. it made us feel that we were the only clown who played the show. one who broke the trust probably won`t worth the value for relations we want. and he/she will do the same things to the one who love. when we love each other, we are not only about affair but based on good friendship. you can be a mother Teresa to be a his/her listener and a guide. but things are very complicated, because we have too many feeling and emotions to face this kind of problems. i think it will usually end up spoiling. because he/she probably won`t appreciate the trust and takes granted all things i gave.

i think it's hard , oh no ith's impossible.

Trust is one of the most essentials in a relationship.. Honestly speaking, I don't think it would be fair for me to trust him again..Even if I've loved that guy wholeheartedly, it's hard to regain the trust that I once gave to him..Cause time will come, he'll be able to do the same thing to me again..It's not that I'm harsh or whatsoever but he needs to understand my feelings and what I've felt before..It'll be hard to trust a person once he/she cheats on you..It'll be also hard to give a second chance to someone unworthy of your trust..

i think the unpleasant experience will still linger over, therefore it can not go back to the original relationship.

rather, he has to earn the trust back, it would be difficult to go back to the same level of trust though.