Nowadays many young people think that they just have romantic loves, getting over troubles and finallyhaving happy endings. That is just in old story because today, just a romantic love is not enough to build a happy marige. In fact,a happy marrige bases on finacial stability, morality and beliefs of each other.
Financial stability is the first condition of a happy marriage. Although money is not all but we can not deny its strong function in every fields of society. The romantic love is just in the first stage of love and when they get marriaged, many troubles in their lives like: family, children, parents and so on need money. At that time, a love is losen its value.
The morality and beliefs are still important to build a happy home. When they love, people often are blinded and are deep in love. In marrige, the other factors affect them and change their morality or their beliefs to each other. Just only a piece of gossip from outsides, they are easy to doubt other and have conflicts together. They are extra-marital to get new emotions. So they don’t love each other any more.
Conclusively, a romantic love is a poor basic for marriage. A happy marriage need more real things like financial stability, morality and beliefs. So in life, everyone should balance them to build a happy marriage.
- I disagree with this statement at all. Of course that every parents always get older and get more experiences than us but it doesn’t mean that everything parents say is right. You know that our parents live in history period, and they were affected by feudal ideology that is old and severe in old society. In new stage, ideology is more open. So we can’t obey 100% our parent’s wanting. If when we want to do something, first step we should ask them. If they don’t agree, we should show our opinions, show bad side and good side and show our responsibility for that thing. It mean that we make believe to our parents.
- College or university now is the prior choice for many student after leaving high school. This is because of many reasons: new experience, increased knowledge, career preparation.
Firstly, college or university helps you get new experience. Many student from far howmtown come to city to study. It means that they must live far from their family. In the past, when they were in high school, they live near their family, when they are sad or happy, also have their family besidely. On the other hand, they live so far and they are often homesick, feel alone. They must be more mature, be account for their live: money for rent room, electricity, water, or their study. They must learn the way to protect themself out of social crime. At that time, they will get new experiences for their lives.
Secondly, of course that college or university where student study, increase their knowledge. They learn every thing such as: culture, policy, literature... from their teachers, from textbooks and even from their friends. They can prepare the knowledge for their career day by day and teachers can help them if they need.
Finally, the best wish that student expect from college or university that after graduating, they can find a good job. Between two person, one person graduated and other one hasn’t, so actually that when they apply for a same job, the boss will choose the graduated person because he get degree that proves he has trained as well as enough knowledge for the job.
In short, college or university is the easy way for each student to get a good job and we don’t doubt that now many people attend to university or college.
