Topics to avoid when having a small talk / first touch with somebody
Hello all,
just curious about your feedback...
There is a general rule of avoiding "hot topics" when you meet a person for the first time.
I agree, it would be strange to start immediately with " what do you think about Mr. XXX new plans ".
But anyway it is so interesting for me to know a person's political, religious and general view on things.
Ok, i start also with talking about boring topics like weather and food :) But i have always this " let's come to the real topics '
in my mind. Let's be honest, except of the body language, it is really important what people say about certain things at the beginning.
We all will make a picture of a certain person by analyzing the "data" of the first seconds, so why not to tell / show what is really on your mind.
I know some people dare to talk about the hot topics only after hours of acquaintance. No wonder that they receive then feedback's like " i couldn't imagine, that you are such a person " ...
Curious about your opinion ...