Part 2 The beginning is here: https://www.italki.com/notebook/2587199/entry/864143 So going back to the topic of “good communication”, why is it so special? The way I see it, chatting helps us unwind by sharing our thoughts and opinions on the life itself. It can be a teeny-tiny problem at school because of a strict teacher, or it can be something controversial and worth talking about like the environment, politics or famine. The point is, it does not really important to be right, to have any background experience of the topic. A human is a giver. We need to give first or we will not be able to receive. It is logical: if you want to full a full glass, you need to empty it first. And what stays behind thinking about the conversation over and over again? Sometimes the topic itself can be really haunting and it will not let you go. It is OK. We like coming out on top, and if we lose, our brain starts envisioning things, making up numerous stories beginning with “ifs” and “thens”. So it is true. Good chat with a nice interlocutor is like grand coffee. Somewhere deep down we know, that drinking too much is bad, but we are too weak to stop. On our subconscious level we are ready to face the music.