How will you convince your sister to get married .Girls ideas are most welcome!!
Well since few months a third world war has started in my house. My sister turns 28 next January. It is really a high time for any Indian Hindu Girl to get married by that age. But my parents give us a lot of freedom and choice. They taught us to be self-dependent. So we have lot of individuality in my home. Nobody tries to force his/her views on another. You can say we are a democratic family. But I think my sister does not understand the difference between individuality and responsibility. My parents bring the alliance for marriage but she give lame reasons to reject the gentleman. It happened many times. Any time I try to discuss this with her , she simply shuns the topic or warns me to mind my own business instead of running a marriage bureau. She asks a question , " Bro! Are all the married people happy? Show me one wife who does not curse her fate of getting married to her husband. Show me one man who really and sincerely takes care of his wife's emotions. Why buy new troubles as if the existing ones are not enough. "
I simply cannot answer the above question. I am worried that my parents are aging and my sister is still single. What may become of her! I think it is every brothers problem. I do not even know her tastes! We never talked so deeply about it because I for myself have no opinion on how my future wife should be.
Please correct my English. I also welcome matured suggestions from married people as well as girls.
Thank you friends