Boys and girls living together without marriage. Advantages and disadvantages.

In today’s world living together without marriage is common between young people. Although There are not few some people who disagree with this statement and they believe that living in a relationship can be a good reason to early broke up of couple reason why couples break up early, while others believe that it’s a good chance to save them at from divorce. I believe these relationships can be able to create a strong family.

Firstly, many couples choose live in relationship together before marriage because of financial aid. They are moving together to reduce save (money) on rent or other housing costs. But there can be an unpleasant broke break up and he or she may be left without a roof on his/her head. Furthermore if there is a child born out in such birth in the relationship it would be a big problem not only with its the parents but also with bringing the child up it in broken family.

On the other hand, there are many advantages of living together before marriage. Firstly, it can be an essential phase in a relationship in case of if the two partners have had an unhappy experience in the past. So they will be more patient and understandable to each other, and their decides decisions will be more thoughtful. Secondly there will not be a large number of divorced couples because it is easier to say “we broke up” rather than to say “we are divorced”.

However, given the high divorce rate many young people can may be raised in broken homes. After they have seen all of the problems and difficulties of marriage, they would rather scare they may be afraid of making to do the same mistakes or losing the freshness of the relationship. Nevertheless a relationship is about discovering each other everyday, even with good or not so good sides, and living together before marriage can easily determine that.