Quote from a grammar dictionary:
"Use is if you want to emphasize the group; use are if you want to emphasize the individual members. It's the same with other collecting phrases, like a variety of. There is a wide variety of flavors to choose from. There are a variety of unique destinations we can visit."
"As a collective noun, variety, when preceded by a, is often treated as a plural: A variety of inexpensive goods are sold here."
I will aquiesce. Given the need for folks to be right, go ahead. Fill yer boots. Italki is no longer a language-learning forum. It's an egocentric forum. Ciao!