In fact, in term of family, is it better to be an adult or a child mostly depends on what kind of children or parents they have. An adult is ont only a person, he or she is an important part of a family which includes children. A child needs help from their parents to grow up. How to help their children healthily grow up is an essential skill that each parent need to learn. Only when parents and children find the best way to Keep a good relationship, both of them feel happy. However, most children and parents don't have the clear boundaries. Parents are usually strict to their children anytime which makes the children feel like they are the pet birds locked in a cage. The sky is their world. So, there is a great saying goes that an adult can use thier sweet childhood memories to be a happy person, if not, they need to use their whole life to cure their childhood trauma. This is just for our family life. We are also the part of the society. What kind of friends, teachers or strangers we will meet deeply influence whether we will be happy or not?