It depends on the context...
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1. When referring to somebody for several times.
"Sie warteten auf Björn, aber der war zuhause und schlief noch."
They waited for Björn, but he was still at home, sleeping.
"Peter, der zwei Jahre in London lebte, antwortete in perfektem Englisch".
Peter, who lived in London for two years, answered in perfect english.
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2. der + last name (when talking *about* someone)
"Der Bierhoff wird nie was erreichen"
*the* Bierhoff will never achieve anything.
In this case, "der" is used to depreciate something called "Bierhoff"
"Der Schröder hatte gute Ideen"
*the* Schröder had good ideas.
In this case, we use "der"...because...well...why not?
It´s informal, and you wouldn´t say "der Schröder" when he is at hearing range...but it´s not depreciating.
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These rules apply to women aswell. You´ll have to use "die" instead of "der", though.