what is the proper form for 싣다 in this conjugation?
싣다 turns into 실어요 but is it the proper form for 싣는다 as infinite form?

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싣다 is ‘ㄷ’ 불규칙 ; ‘ㄷ’ Irregular verb
When a verb stem ending in ‘ㄷ’ is followed by an ending beginning with a vowel, ‘ㄷ’ changes to ‘ㄹ’. 
Verb(ㄷ ending) + vowel -> ㄷ changes to ㄹ
싣(다) + 어 -> 실어
싣(다) + 으 -> 실으

싣는다 is 해라체 indicative non-past form
실어요 is 해요체 indicative non-past form

You can see full conjugation table at
https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/%EC%8B%A3%EB%8B%A4