A letter to my daughter(imaginary daughter) Complete a letter to your teen aged daughter expressing your thoughts and hopes for her regarding sexuality.(the way you hope she expects to be treated by others,(both females and males), and the manner in which she views herself). Your suggestion should help guide her to know when she is in a healthy relationship and when she may ready for sexual activities. Here is my composition. Dear Daughter: I'm writing this letter to tell you some of my thoughts about sexuality. you are being a teenager and you might have some personal mature thoughts about relationship between friends. You might have some infatuations which you think that is love. I just want to tell you the differences between infatuation and love .Most of your feeling to others are infatuation. It's based on materials. It is one sided and unbalanced. You are just being in love with the "idea" of someone. If you are really love someone, you'll love the whole person for who they are. You can accept and recognize flaws. Love at first sight is wrong. You should also view yourself positive. Think of what is the real beauty for you. Try not to follow fashion all the time and use the improper methods to lose weight. If you accept who you are and be happy and confident,you'll have real beauty. You might probably have a healthy relationship. You should listen to each other because communication is in both directions. You and your friends should have a positive self esteem. Both of you had better trust each other and know how they feel when they are low. That's all I can tell you .I hope that my personal experience can help you in your sexuality. If you have some more good ideas ,please add in another color in the paragraph.