If you choose your boy friend ,what is the most important characteristics that you will emphasize?

If you are a department leader,what kind of person do you appreciate?

Be in a dilemma I have a cousin.He is in my age.His father treats me like his own child.Today,they came back from YunNan ,China.My aunt gave me a lot of presants.I was very happy,however,my aunt want to give me more presants,so ,he came into my brother's room and took away some presants from my cousin.My aunt thought my brother should not care,I am his sister.He asked me to take away them ,otherwise ,he would be unhappy.However,my brother cares indeed.He is angry now.As a sister,I will not take away anything from him if he is not willing to.He is so angry now,I do not konw how to relieve him.In addition ,what should I do?I need your help.I am in a dilemma.

What should I do to keep our friendship? I have a best friend.We shared our stories with each other.I never cheated her,I love her just like my sister.However,I found she sometimes kept her emotions or ideas to herself.I am afraid that she will leave me alone.I have a lot of friends,but she is the real one.Now,she has a new friend.I find our frienship is fading even though she does not admit that.What should I do?I do not want to be active to keep touch with her again ,I am so tired.However,I do not want to lose her.I am in a dilemma.