And sending her to the hospital is just wasting money. But we have nothing to do with the system. My father even paid a bribe to the chief nurse because others paid it. If we don’t pay it, they treat her differently. For example, they refused to reposition her, which made her pressure ulcer worse. My mother and the helper that we hired asked them to help, the nurses wanted to help, but the chief nurse stopped them. My father had no idea, then bought cherries and other fruits for the nurses, they accepted them without reluctance.
Of course everybody should be responsible for themselves. As long as you go to the hospital, you don’t have many choices.