Yes, It will change, but not for the good, I believe that will become each time more comercial.

Most of musicians want to do something different but most of the time, It doesn't give you at least a modest profit, so they need to be more and more commercial to try to reach a larger audicience, My brother is a musician so I can talk with a lot of famous people about that.

I personally like a great number of commercial songs, but I don't know what happened in the last year, the songs that were realesed were pretty bad. So I'd prefer to listen songs of smaller countries, they sound more genuine

Honestly, Both are very important, firstly, To us note a woman must be attractive but beauty does not hold relationships, at the first moment it is really important, we are attracted to what is beautiful, but it is simply not enough, we want to be engaged with someone also which we can keep a good conversation, that knows to discuss about the most diverse subjects. 

About your friend, I don't see a problem with that, if she doesn't want to do nothing productive is just her business, it's her choice. I don't like that, I'd a woman which works, is independent, a relationship which we can both grow togheter