Please, check my English translation Many parents often get in trap of management: they are keen on control of children too much, their marks, following the rules instead of pointing right direction, determine goals or giving them warm family feelings. In our private life we suffer from lack of skill to carry out sensible management. We tends to establish task and try to solve it before realizing our values. As it has been already noticed, unique human gift lies in roots of proactive principles - self-consciousness and capacity to self-assessment. Two another ability exist allowing human to be owner of his destiny: imagination and conscience. With help of imagination we can imagine non-existent world of our potential ability and conscience provides inner contact with “principles”. Owing to this we can bring use and at the same time realize out talents. In conjunction with self-awareness, these features allow us to write our own scenario. S.Covey - 7 habits of highly effective people