Hallo!!!! Ich Heiße João Ich bin 28 jahre alt und ich bin brasilianen. Ich mochte ein deutsch Freund. Ich lerne Deutsch!! Guten nacht!!

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I learned to be simple when I flirt with girls. Sometimes it is dificult to us to accept the idea of getting nice results doing simple things... When I was younger I always tried to flirt with girls in a very complex way with many psychological games which made the flirting very tiring and dificult to conect me with the girl I wanted... Recently I noticed how stupid I used to be. My hint for you who strugle flirting with girls is: Be simple when you flirt with girls..... Do never think a lot wether or not she likes you... Change all of those heavy thoughts and projections for a simple "do you wanna go to a date with me?" and see what happens... I feel that I lost many opportunities due to my old mindset and I feel a little bit frustrated about it. Thats why I like to share my experiences. Thank you for reading.

About optimism When I was 12 years old I remember having a very optimistic mindset. Children don't worry about things as adults do... They can enjoy every single minute of the present moment... This is one of the things that I most miss from my childhood, I didn't use to be afraid of failures or tough moments which could happen in the future.... And I used to have very positive results compared to my expectations. Sometimes I wonder Why adults have such a complex and boring expectation about the future using complex ways to get it meanwhile children don't think a lot about tomorrow and aways have simple ways to get what they want...

Why are'nt adults optimistic? When I was 12 years old I remember having a very optimistic mindset. Children don't worry about things as adults do... They can enjoy every single minute of the present moment... This is one of the things that I most miss from my childhood, I didn't use to be afraid of failures or tough moments which could happen in the future.... And I used to have very positive results compared to my expectations. Sometimes I wonder Why adults have such a complex and boring expectation about the future using complex ways to get it meanwhile children don't think a lot about tomorrow and aways have simple ways to get what they want...

I am very sad I am very sad about the coronavirus. Can't project the future in my mind and I am worried about me and my family....

I am afraid Are you afraid of coronavirus as I am? I have been doing many projections last days.... I am Brazilian, and... lets be honest... The health system here is not the best of the world... We will live the chaos for some months and that really scaries me. In the city I live I feel that everyone is sad and afraid.... Afraid of the future and of coronavirus. Does someone has any information to comfort me?

About girls and Shyness I have always been shy when it comes to girls... I think shyness has its stages because in each part of my life I used to have diferent bahaviour with girls I was in love with. Stage 1 - Is the classic stage where I always tried to be away from the person I was in love with... I couldnt even talk properly to them because I used to get craziely nervous. Stage 2 - After some years I decided that I HAD to talk to the girls I loved... That way I started trying to be someone I wasn't and show them how "bold" and "not shy" I was... Everyone who has ever pretended to be another person knows its a torture. And it didnt work very well. Stage 3- Tired of being another person I started being myself.... But I was still shy... Not as I used to be in the previous stages but I still had the feeling of inferiority when compared to the girl I was in love in the moment... That way I started doing some of the things I am more ashamed about, telling things to them which had hidden messages such as "youre not that beautiful" or "youre boring" or "youre not enough to me".... I did that not because I was cocky, I actually used to do that because I was insecure and I wanted to pull her down "to the same level I was". And I didnt even realized that I did that because I did uncounsciously. Stage 4- After many failures being an idiot with girls I realized how stupid I was being because of my shyness and I tryied to change it. Thats the Stage I am now... Trying to change my mistakes and see myself in the same levels than the girls I like. Being shy is horrible. It makes you lose one of the best parts of your life... After my whole experience I can give you an advice. Do never think that girl is over you. Always think you are in the exactaly same level... Otherwise all the decisions you take about trying to date her will be wrong. Yes, I have had some dates in my life but never with girls I really wanted to.... It is still tough to me but I have improved a lot last years. Thank you for reading. correct me if you can.