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Sepideh
Can boys marry easily without proper income in your country?

I was watching a clip and asked girl's parents that whether they'll let their girl marry to a boy who has low income or not and some of them answered that they can't let, because they can't guarantee a good life for the girl after marriage and love without a proper money after marriage is just a lie... 

What do you think and can boys marry easily without proper income in your country?

Is money important for marriage from your point of view?

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Hi Sepideh, 

"asked girl's parents that whether they'll let their girl marry to a boy who has low income " - Here less and less parents opinions are taken into consideration for marriage...

From my point of view of my place few people have a proper marriage with religious celebration or any celebration at all, most of the people just say that are going to live with someone and go... 

So, it's up to each girl and not to their parents to decide... at least from what I can see...


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In America yes they can and do (sometimes unfortunately haha) 
It all depends on the girl and what she thinks is important 

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Wow, young hearts always believe that with love they can conquer every corner. Sure we have such lovely souls in China. But sometimes the cruel facts are that without bread and milk, some lovers can also get to be whingy and nasty that tarnishes the most precious so soon. How wonderful if they can look after and protect each other no matter illness or poverty as is vowed in a wedding oath!

Life experiences told.me we do have so called class limitation. Childhood background decides greatly on a person's characteristics. 

Although it is becoming rare and rare, I still believe in true love beyound anything! We just need to find the right one. Before that we must be the best of us to deserve that most suitable. 

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In my city and hometown village, there is no way to get married if the boys do not have enough property. In my home town village, in general, the boy need to build a new house, it always costs about more than 400,000 RMBs, and buy a car which not less than 100,000 RMBs, and the bride price should not less than 100,000 RMBs. By the way, my hometown village is not a rich place. If a boy does not have enough money and try to ask for a marriage, the girl's relatives will look down upon him.  But many boys are positive, they regard such challenges as a test of love. 




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I think expectations and job security have both changed. Years ago people would marry with very little, particularly if one of them had a full time job as many jobs were much more secure than now. They expected to have to save for things and acquire things slowly but they also expected to remain in full time employment. Nowadays, most jobs do not offer job security and people prefer to be financially more secure than in the past before getting married. Neither money nor possessions guarantee happiness and starting out with very little can make a marriage more of an adventure but it is a personal decision in the end.

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