Is it rude to say it? thanks
do you need time to gather yourself?

what are other ways to say it ?(rude and polite respectively)

Question

Is it rude to say it? thanks
do you need time to gather yourself?

what are other ways to say it ?(rude and polite respectively)

Answer

It's actually the opposite. Saying it like this is nicer, but it depends on the tone of your voice.

A few other ways to say it is:

Suck it up! (This is rude, or like commanding) Actually, anything that's with a question mark isn't really rude.

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Polite:

Do you need some/more time?

Neutral:
Are you ready?

Rude:
Hurry Up

But everything can change based on the tone of voice as well.