The phrase "to crush something out of someone or something" means "to press or squeeze something from someone or something." For example: He crushed the juice out of the grapes. He thought that the weight of the lumber would crush the life out of him. Robert crushed out the juice. (see 'http://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/crush+out+of") So, I suppose the actress acted as if she would kill the man.