DAICHI
Who should be responsible for verbal communication? Speaker or listener? In Europe and the United States, they tend to think that the speaker should make himself or herself understood and should explain untill the listener can understand.Today I read it in the article.

Is it true?

I'm sorry, but  at first, didn't get it because in Japan, it's oppisite. They say listener is, by comparison, responsible for understanding the speaker's message and speaker doesn't have to explain until listener can understand, so the listener should be quick to grasp things. Of course it's the best way both are mutually supportive...

14 sty 2018 10:01
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I think that both should cooperate to make the idea clear ,we can't depend on one side the speaker may not talktive enough to make it clear and listen may not able to concentrate especially if they are from different countries and speak different languages .
14 stycznia 2018
3

Effective communication is a two way process with both the speaker and the listener being equally responsible. An active listener will pay attention and respectfully ask for clarification if he/she does not understand. An attentive speaker will try to make his point clear and precise but realistically this is not always possible because of complex subject matter or perhaps being nervous perhaps. Many things can affect good communication but it can be achieved with all persons wanting the same outcome, and making the effort to be involved.

Sometimes effective communication is simply impossible, listening to a speaker who drones on and on and on, makes it hard to listen when your eyes get heavy, and you think "I really wish I were anywhere but here."

14 stycznia 2018
3

No doubt, they are both.

14 stycznia 2018
2

Hi, DAICHI, it's true. I know Europe people and American or Canadian people are likely to explain what they think, why they do, to make themselves understand. Sometimes it might sounds like their too much excuse for what they did. But I realized that they seem to think it's rude not to explain and excuse. They think the listeners have rights to listen to the explanation, the reasons, the ideas, the details and so on. On the other hand, Japanese people think it's beautiful and respectable manner to guess or understand before listening the whole contents.  Moreover,  in Japanese society, if someone explains too much, his attitude would be looked arrogant or annoying. I think this is one of the reasons that  Japanese people are not good at discussion. Japanese people tend to be quiet and wait for being understood them without their talking. It also causes that non-Japanese people often confuse why Japanese people don't say anything. Personally, I prefer non-Japanese way because I often failed to guess and understand people who didn't explain to me well. 

15 stycznia 2018
2
I think ,yes, speaker should clarify the communication cause generally speaker lead the process.. But its no problem if listener try to understand and explain smth more with extra effort. Its not one way communication:) 
14 stycznia 2018
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