Qingming Festival Qingming Festival is to commemorate the deceased families and relatives. During the festival it usually rains. We had 3 days off for this holiday, I decided to go back to my hometown, because I didn’t seen my parents since our traditional Chinese new year, Spring Festival. During the 3-day holiday, highways were free for drivers in case of the traffic jams. But I still went through serious traffic jams on the first day on highway. The bus I took drove so slowly, it made me sick and thrown up twice. How embarrassing! My schedule was delayed about 2 hours. Because of the raining day I didn’t go out, I spent most of my time in watching TV and rest. I watched a popular Chinese dating program “If You Are The One ”. When I saw a beautiful girl rejected a nice boy, she said “ You are excellent, I like you, but I don’t have the urge to spend my life with u.” Like what she said, I also want to find that kind of guy. It’s not easy but I think I will find him finally. Now the embarrassing thing for me is to be asked by my relatives and friends “ Have you got a boyfriend?” “When will you find a boyfriend?” I am fed up of these. But I still have to answer them politely. I just don’t understand why they like asking these questions? Don’t they know the feelings of being asked?