You don't know about me I don't have very many friends in this city. I was thinking of the other day --we seemed to be living in a ' friend making machine' when we were young . the kids next door , classmates from school , friends you met during summer and winter vacation...you'd know who was brave ,who was interesting, who ride a bike really well and you can trust and share all your secrets with. we had an endless amount of time,school or vacation, we were together everyday. And then we grow up, because of school, work ,or family,we lose touch with our old friends...but at the same time it's hard to make new friends when you are grown up.it's not that we have more interesting and kind people around us, it's just that we don't dare to make friends. people would rather marry someone they've met for few days than saying "let's be friends " to someone seems nice. ( i used to become very cautious if there are strangers ask things about me. now i believe most of people around me r kind.of course I've made many friends )