Diary of my life in Canada September 26 (About a relationship 3) I already toked about the problems that I've been having lately. The reason why I don't like sharing house with someone else is becau

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Diary of my life in Canada　September 26 (About a relationship 3) I already toked about the problems that I've been having lately. The reason why I don't like sharing house with someone else is because I can't stop wondering if they are bothered me or not. Last night, after taking a shower, my owner checked the bathroom if I wiped the floor after taking shower. We are supposed to wipe the floor after taking a shower to keep clean there. I actually did it. But she checked the bathroom and she wiped there too. When I realized that, I was really unpleasant. If I am bothering her, I want her to say something to me in person. She usually tries to conceal her mind. I know she always cares her house too much, and wants to keep clean. I'm also trying to use her house cleanly, but the way might not enough for her. So I can't stop wondering if she gets angry or not whenever she speak something to her husband . (it's because she is not native English speaker, so when they talk, they usually speak their mother tongue. So I can't understand what they are talking about.) It's so stressful for me. What am I supposed to do? I already done that she wants me to do. Should I care about her house too much like her? I haven't got used to sharing a house still now. Even though I've been in Canada for months... Please give me some suggestions!!!

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Diary of my life in Canada　September 26 (About a relationship 3)

I already talked about the problems that I've been having lately.

The reason why I don't like sharing a house with someone else is because I can't stop wondering if I am bothering them or not.

Last night, after taking a shower, the owner of the house checked the bathroom to see if I wiped the floor after taking a shower.
We are supposed to wipe the floor after taking a shower to keep it clean in there.
I actually did it, but she checked the bathroom and she wiped it again too.
When I realized that, I felt really uncomfortable. If I am bothering her, I want her to say something to me in person. She usually tries to conceal her mind.

I know she always cares about her house too much, and wants to keep it clean.
I'm also trying to keep her house clean , but in a way that might not be enough for her.
So I can't stop wondering if she gets angry or not whenever she says something to her husband .
(it's because she is not a native English speaker, so when they talk, they usually speak their mother tongue. So I can't understand what they are talking about.)

It's so stressful for me.

What am I supposed to do?
I already did what she wants me to do.
Should I care about her house as much as her?

I still haven't got used to sharing a house.
Even though I've been in Canada for months...

Please give me some suggestions!!!

Hey! Just keep calm and try to be extra nice to your flatmates. Do things that are not expected, like cleaning some of their dishes too while you are doing your own dishes - It is not expected, therefore they will be pleased (I guess...normally it would be this way!). Also try to think with their heads! Think ahead of them ;)

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2009/feb/17/student-housing

Here some suggestions from The Guardian ;) Good luck with that! Keep your head up! You'll be fine ;) We all struggle with new housemates.

I went through this also many years ago. My solution: I moved.

Diary of my life in Canada　September 26 (About a relationship 3)

I already talked about the problems that I've been having lately.

The reason why I don't like sharing house with someone else is because I can't stop wondering if they are bothered me or not.

Last night, after taking a shower, my owner checked the bathroom if I wiped the floor after taking shower.
We are supposed to wipe the floor after taking a shower to keep it clean.
I actually did it. But she checked the bathroom and wiped it again.
When I realized that, it was really unpleasant.If I am bothering her, why she just don't show me in person.

She usually tries to conceal her mind.

I know she cares about her house too much, and wants to keep it clean.
I also try to use her house cleanly, but the way might be not enough for her.
So I can't stop wondering if she gets angry or not ,whenever she talk with to her husband .
(it's because she is not a native English speaker, so when they talk, they usually speak their mother tongue so I can't understand what they are talking about.)

It's so stressful for me.

What am I supposed to do?
I have already done all what she wants me to do.
Should I care about her house like her? Too much ?

Oh dear !

I haven't got used to share a house till now.
Even though I've been in Canada for months...

(Ps. Don't give up ,she will understand that you are trying your best even though she wants her artwork besides it .Don't be sad some people are made this way not for you or for something else, just because this way they are . )

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