Different Meaning about Hugging in my Country
Everytime Every time,when I meet my foreign friends, we always have a hug or kiss your face.The first time, I don't did not know how to react as to someone touching me. My friends often teased me when they hugged me, they think they hug me like hard saying hugging me was like hugging a tree. Gradually, I am became used to hugging people, and I feel better now when someone hugs me. My friends told me you hugging someone that is means the persons are person is close to you and shows their them your heart. So now I enjoy hugging friends, that which also means you they are important in my mind.
However, when I came back to my country, I met my friends or and family. I am was so joyful. I wanna wanted to give them a big hug, but I didn't do that. Suddenly, I am was embarrassed in hugging persons people. In my country, when you met we meet friends, we always only wave hand and say, ''Hi, how are you?'', or we nod head or shake hands when you meeting some people who is are not close. I am reminded of one of my foreign friends. She asked me, ''In my your country, people's reactions is are cold, isn't aren't they?'' . Yeah, I agree. I think this is a culture gap. I tried to hug my family. They considered it too close intrusive and nauseating. Finally, they escape avoided my hugs. One of fun things A funny thing, I have never hugged my dad since I was not a baby. On the contrary, I hugged my friend's father before. It is impossiblele impossible to hug my own father. He is so serious and hard-close hard-nosed.
DIFFERENT MEANING ABOUT HUG IN MY COUNTRY
Everytime when I meet my foreign friends, we always have a hug or kiss on the cheek. The first time, I didn't know how to react to someone touching me.My friends often tease me when they hug me,they think they are hugging a hard tree! Gradually,I am getting used to hugging people and I feel better when someone hugs me.My friend told me that when you hug someone that it means you are close and both are showing their hearts.So now I enjoy hugging friends and I know that it also means they are important in my mind.However,when I came back my own country and met my friends or family I am so joyful I wanted to give them a big hug but I didn't do that.Suddenly,I am embarrassed to hug people. In my country, when you met a friend,we always only wave hands and say ''hi,how are you'' or we nod head or shake hands when you meet someone who is not close.I remember one of my foreign friend said to me '' in your country people's reactions are cold, aren't they?'' . Yeah, I agree.I think this is a culture gap.I tried to hug my family members. They consider it too close and nauseating.Finally they escape my hug.One of fun things, I have never hugged my dad since I was a baby. In contrast I would hug my friend's father before I would hug my own father! It is impossible to hug my father.He is so serious and hard to be close to.
