As for adults, they listen to their bosses during working time, their bosses ask them to do whatever the bosses think that are correct. In that case, they have no chance to say no to their bosses. But when go back home after work, they usually ask their children do whatever they want. just like they are the bosses at home. At the begining, their children are too little to revolt their parents, but as they grow up , especially when they adolesce, they are strong enough to withstand their parents. They refuse to communite with their parents. All the life becomes a mess and everything is out of control. Let's go back time to the perios of that when their children were still little, and exchange their roles with their children, they might be suprised to find that all the things their children want is just the love from them without any unreasonable demand. which also reminds them of their childhood, the same desire they wanted to get from their parents. The worse fact is that we easily forget the bad things once happened on us, but like to do the same thing for others.