Even when nobody judges you, you are still stuck with your own self judgement. You'll have to lose that, too, otherwise you'll be in the same pickle as before.

There will always be someone to judge you. My advice is don't do anything that you will regret later on in life.

I dread to think!!! If I knew I would not be judged on my actions, then I must admit, I would probably be corrupted by this power. And my actions would be self-centred. ...I'm only human after all. :))))

Wow, I would have to say that my opinion is the exact opposite of Jura's. And I think that's a first - since I admire her perspective on so many issues. Please Maria, do what I failed to do...live every moment of your life to the fullest not caring one bit about what others think of your actions. People, as a whole, are petty, selfish, and judgemental. And their judgements add up to absolutely nothing. Live your life freely and surround yourself with those wonderful souls (friends) that do not judge. And feel sorry for those that do. What would I do first if I would not be judged? I would dance naked in the rain...until I fell from exhaustion.

I would answer you sincerely.