-You are making me tense -you are stressing me -You have me tense -you make me feel stressed -You make me tense -You have me tense -You make me feel tense

Yes the right way to say it like a native English speaker is " you are making me tense!"

-- "You are making me tense." -- "You are stressing me out!" is an informal/slang way to express the same idea. -- "I feel tense when you _______ (shout, drive fast, do ____ , say _____ , etc.)." This is a good way to say it if you want to sound less judgemental. You can say this if you want to avoid or end an argument rather than start an argument :-)