Agghh ... listen to everybody and just ignore him. Im glad to read that you are not freaking out, just looking for a solution. Good for you !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hug, Jen

I have received a few "dubious" friends' requests, and I have both, blocked and reported these "ladies". I find it very annoying, I must admit.

Hi Jiang Cheng, Hope you've blocked him! Reporting it is the next thing. There's usually a 'Report Concern' or a 'Flag' link on any page or comment. The email for abuse reports is [email protected] But I suspect you've already done that. I'd only use politeness if there was a misunderstanding - rude people get deserve no response except being blocked and reported.

嗨。我只是隨便亂逛，結果給我看到這標題。 首先我想，這就是現實生活中的世界：除了好人之餘，總會存在著某些爛屁股(a**holes / 尻(しり)の穴(あな) / 똥구멍 / trous du cul / Arschlöche / hoyos del culo / buchi del culo ... 等等)。所以，最簡單又直接的辦法，就正如以上其他會員所說的，不要理會它們就好(我特意用「它們」，是因為現在是描述那班「爛屁股」:) 不過，相比這些擺明就是爛屁股的人，現實生活中的偽君子(譬如：說一套做一套的、口蜜腹劍的、又或是表面對妳很好，但其實暗地裡已經準備把妳拿去賣掉的；甚至賣掉妳以後，還要妳幫他[她]數鈔票的人)卻更可怕。所以，「防人之心不可無」，妳總是要懂得保護自己呢。 祝君好運、遠離小人。:) 祝 週末愉快。/ Take care, and good weekend. 補：欸，我剛回去看看妳在肥利克爾(Flickr)貼的附圖，怎麼那傢夥的匿名竟然是 “Anu” (跟 "Anal" 音那麼接近)？！這不就證明他是擺明要做「爛屁股」的嘛。:)

unless it comes from people you may encounter in the street and recognize you, complete disregard is enough.