The gift of time The gift of time is just the gift of life, if we know how to achieve it. The first time l saw this sentence l was moved by it deeply. l cannot make a definition of the true meaning of it and l comprehended it only on my own way. And today l guess l have got the gift becaue l cherished the time during the whole day. My schedule was totally full today, from morning into evening, even without a break at noon. Actually, l would not have had so many things to do. But there were certain meaningful thing l believe l need to do, or l must have no opportunity and regret it in the future. The first thing is running for an voluntary job in our collage. l have already had this idea in my mind when l was a freshman. But l didn't take any action for l was always in the shadow of self-doubt and self-abased. l think l was not fitter for it. This, no doubt, was an enormous regret in my heart hanging over my life until now. Today, l spared no efforts to take part in the competition. l was not hopeful enough to be passed, though l was eager to have this chance, at least l would not be regretful for myself. l cherished this opportunity and my life. Another thing was interesting: playing pool with my foreign teacher and classmates. lt was the first time to play this kind of ball games. However, before today l was confused whether to join them. l need to have a rest at noon while playing pool was also at the same time. Finally l was determined to enjoy the game and enjoy my life. Perhaps missing this chance this time, l would not try pool games in my time. Sometimes life needs a schedule to lead a more precious day, but beyond change life would be tedious and boring. The gift of life is ubiqutious, l am ready to find another now :)

Cooperating with others or doing works by yourself, which one would you choose? lt is always believed that coopreation is indispensable when accomplishing a task. What if this kind of situation that in your group no one' s capability is higher than you? Would you still choose to cooperate with others?

What ' s your idea about introverted person? What ' s your idea about introverted person? Shy? Incommunicative? Unsociable? What if this kind of person who is talktive in group, active in class, friendly in society, but always prefers being alone? Actually, l am a girl with such strang, inconsistent charactistics. l used to believe that l was abnormal or even more serious. Today, l read an artical discussing this kind of person in detail, from which l have a more comprehensive recognization about myself and luckily l am normal, just lack a bit knowledge on human charactistics. The artical points out that person who have talktive, positive, active behavior are generally accepted as outgoing, extroverted ones. In fact, the ones presenting like this but also enjoying tackling things by himself, are also divided into the group of shy guys. Rather than be distrubed by others, they would choose to be alone when deal with some matters of consequence. With regard to discussion, they do not hate it because they are eager to new and creative ideas. What makes them think boring is spending time but getting nothing useful. They can speak eloquently for hours if the topic or a person inspires them. On the contrary, they can keep slience from beginning to the end if they lose their interests in it. Now l realized why l am truely active and easygoing, but enjoy the time when l stay alone, also, think alone. So if you meet this kind of person, just like me, around you, please have an apprenhension of them. They are not abnormal or indifferent, they only need some personal time and personal space:)

My depressed for no reason? Sometimes l would be reluctant to talk with others, although l am an extrovet and talktive girl, generally. Sometimes l would be depressed for no reason, the negative feeling taking up my mind in a flash. Just as today, when my roomate came close to me and saw my phone screen, a sense of disgust occupied my brain. l didn' t want to say any words to her, as she asked me some questions. The only thing l wanted to do is to stay alone and keep quiet. My roomate's words disrupted my personal space, l supposed it at that time. Actually, she did nothing wrong, and her inquires were heared very common in our daily life. Now that kind of terrible feeling has already gone away. l feel better now. So l reflect why l would be trapped into that mood, and why l would treat my friendly roomate in such way. lt' s really impolite, however,l know it. l haven 't found way to tackle this problem. Granted that l haven' t had any idea about it, l make a decision that from now on, no matter how depressed l might be, l should not bring my bad mood into others . Perhaps l have not been mature enough. l still have much to know and to learn!

Spending time listening to your children There are many nice words around us every day, many of with are from innocent kids. Have you ever noticed? Today, l was moved by the words that said by a little daughter to his father:' Dad, l can wear one dress for a long time. l can eat some simple food. l can live in a small house. So could you spend more time in having meals with mum and l, not in earning money and your job?' l forgot her original words, and this one is similar to her meaning. Her father is a movie director, always busy with his job. He realizes his behavior is unfair to his family members but he has no choice because he need to make money to make bread on the table. He creates a better life for his family in his endevaors. This kind of father is very common,l think, under an enormous pressure from the society. Their original intentions are fantastic, just for the sake of a better life. Yet their eagerness to money and job leads to an overlook for their family members, which can not be bought by money. l am convinced that the daughter' s words not only transferred her true thought, but also a majority of children' inner voices. ln many cases what we adults tend to put aside is what children really want. Spend some of your free time with your children, listen to their inner thought, consider their advice. l would wager that what you will acquire is more significent than money and your work:)

My girlish mum l have this kind of feeling: as time goes by, we are growing up, from a child to an adult, more mature and more reasonable; while our parents are getting older and older, from adults to olders, less energetic and less enthusiastic. But l have found a strange thing: older as they are, they sometimes behave just like a kid, more childish than us. Now my mum has been forty, however, abnormally girlish. l guess she might be younger than me in some cases. For example, she has a great passion on soap opera, especially some romatic plots and handsome male stars. l can't help to teasing her when her eyes were misted up with tears when moved because l clearly know these plots are surely unrealistic. The only words l want to say is:" Mum, you've been married. Just stop your daydreaming!" Recently she bought some clothes all with light, bright colors. l was surprised because if you neglect her wrinkles and her age, you might be in an illsion that she was my sister, not my mother! To be honest, l feel relieved for my mum's abnormal behavior. Granted that physically people tend to be weaker as they become older and older, mindly they might also lose their energy and enthusiasm to the life. lt' s a matter of seriousness. l don't hope that my parents always stay at home, abandoning every kind of activity and amusement. l would let them do something excited or even crazy rather than make them feel that life is tedious and hopeless. So in the future, l will not require them too much. Just accompany them and enjoy the beautiful days:)

What do you think about workholics? Do you agree with the idea that workholics just lost their lives because of working?

Do you think you are a workholic? Recently l was trapped in a strange circle: feeling anxious when have nothing to do. l remembered a kind of person: workholic! Someone whose life depend on their works. They only focus on their works and tasks, paying less or no attention to their families, their friends or other trifles. On one hand, they are totally successful because they are dilligent and work-harded all the time. On the other hand, they lose the happiness in their life. l dislike this kind of person, so l am annoyed by the state l am trapped in now. Finally, l made a decision that to relax myself tonight, leaving all tasks and matters behind my mind. And l got touched with two old friends who l haven' t contacted for a long time. We talked some topics about our opinions on our future, our Mr.Right, our career, and many trifles. During the communication, my anxiety gradually faded away, and unreasonable happiness was filled up in my mind. Although we three couldn't see others, we still felt that all of us must haven' t changed too much! Friendship will exist forever! When say goodbye, l just realized my life shouldn' t only have works, l need relax, l need to find sometime to enjoy my life! l am hoping that l will not become a workholic:)

Keeping making reflection and conclusion everyday! This afternoon l went out with my bosom friend. lt' s just our regular activity on every Friday afternoon. At first, we decided to go shopping. Having went shopping in many supermarkets, both of us have made some conclusions, such as which market' s goods isthe most various, which one's price is most reasonable, or which one's foods are most fresh. What' s more, we have thought up a new idea to buy some expensive snacks we are eager to taste as well as saving money at the same time. The method we take is that we choose the snacks we both love and then one buy part of these snacks in a double amount and the other take the rest part in double ,too. At the end we will fullfill our eagerness by sharing our snacks we want to eat with each other beyond buying them all at one time. Maybe my explanation is perplexing, in short our idea is just to share with each other. Sharing is a fantastic thing in the world, not only food! Then we had a tendency to hang out some cloth stores. Granted that our university is located on the outskirts of this city, there are few cloth stores near us. To be honest, l had no idea about what kind of cloth to buy, just had a look. Suddenly, l stumbled across a blue dress which caught my attention in a flash. Yeah, l haven't seen such a charming dress! l was too excited to move my eyesight from it! However, when knowing its price, l was hesitated to buy it. l didn't want to spend too much money at the present. Then l reckoned that the clothes my mum bought to were more expensive than this dress.lf l took it l could told mum not to buy some expensive ones to me, which on the contrary would help to save money. So l took the dress and paid for it. ln some cases l should be more independent and learn to make decisions on my own because l have grown up now. Parents can not look after me forever.We can ask them for some advice, but finally the right of decision is still held in our hands. Ok, all above are just what l have experienced and concluded about. From reflecting and concluding a day l get a lot and improve a lot. Hoping every one can squeeze a period of time to make some conclusion or accomplishment, l would wager that it will benefit you a lot:)