What are the steps not to fall in love? Hi dear partners!! After living a three years relationship with a guy I broke up because we couldn't agree about our thinking about God..(it's just like when a Christian cannot fall in love with a Muslim or something like that) it seems like we really were in love, but we couldn't be together..kinda crazy but I was strong and fell apart..the thing is that just in two months after..I got the new he has a new girlfriend..WTF!!?? how could he forget a three years relationship in two months?? how can that be possible if he used to call me all the time to make up?? it has been like 8 months from that fact..and I just realized that I don't want, ever in life, fall in love again..it's a waste of time..you give time, pure love, and everything you can (nobody ask you to do it I know it) but what if that person promise you love, promise you to never let you and he forgets you just in a couple of months?? Idk..maybe love exists..but not for me.. Oh..going back to the point..I'm looking for a person to teach me not to fall in love..not to feel anything for anyone..more than friendship..(the problem is I met a guy..everytime I see him it's like .. magic..he smiles to me and it's like everyone left but he and me..he works in a restaurant..and what I can see is that he's very polite with people, but never smiles with anyone..I ask myself if that means something? but I tell myself that he's just being like this with me because I was the only person who goes the restaurant and speaks to him in his mother tongue?? maybe that makes him wanna be my friend and that's all..but..OMG!! what if I'm just confused because my ex boyfriend is Asian too?? I'm out of my mind because of this..I've even being trying not to go there..but it's my mother's favourite restaurant..damn it!! So..what to do, not to feel anything for him..?? what to do not to like that beautiful smile?? (I've already tried not to see him when talking to him..but I feel so sad when knowing that he's looking at me waiting for a look back..waaaaa!!!!! Can you realize it?? I'm trying not to feel anything..but fighting with this damn thing that makes me just talk about him.. Guys..if my first love made me suffer..I don't wanna suffer again..isn't it logical to learn from mistakes?? when I loved and made everything for that person to feel loved..I realized it was not what I thought..my heart is hurt..and my brain want to protect him remembering me that love means pain afterall. Well, thanks for reading.

Somebody help me with Chinese!! Hi dear friends =) last Saturday I started my Chinese clases, everything was fine but my problem is the pronunciation of "zh" can anyone tell me how can I do it?? I mean..maybe where can I locate my tongue..because I listen the same sound with "ch" - "r" - and "zh" Many thanks guys if you can give me some tip, I will really appreciate it =)

How to get over a broken heart? Can anybody tell me??!!!!!!!! some tips??!! and don't tell me just don't think of him 'cause that's impossible sometimes..I'm good at forgeting things, people..but this time it's different..love wasn't over, but we think different about God and that's important for me..I mean..we have to believe in the same God .. that is the base of a relationship for me..ok a month has passed since we're not together..but there are still things that make me remember him..tell me guys..what would you do to forget a person?? and if you have already lived this experience..what did you do?? I know it's about time..but how can I help me to forget ASAP?? Thank you guys =) hope you spend a good day today Blesses

Facebook What do you think about FB? is is a good tool? for what? I've heard some couples that have broken up before knowing a "new friend" in a game that offers fb, after being friends they share pictures and then they start a "long-distance" relationship, and what about your partner? I mean, your real-lif partner? Let's put another situation, what if you go out with some friends without the knowledge of you partner, they take pictures at the party or wherever you are, then you realize you are in all those pictures and your partner see them!! (haha that's too bad mostly for boys I guess..) Anyway, some of my friendas at University are in class but in FB at the same time..and just to post "I'm in classes" or "This class is so boring" or I don´t know maybe "I've just come back from the toilet"...I mean come on!! why is fb worth? Please someone give me some answers so I can finally decide to use fb or not. Thnx Karina =) "Feel free to make corrections but treat me as you may want to be treated"

Some ways to learn English Hi evey1!! well i just wanted to share with you some useful ways i have tried to learn English. One of them is listening to music, that will help you in listening and speaking. Another way you can try is reading, if you don't have many time for a book, you can try looking for English jokes on the internet..that will help you to improve your vocabulary and you will understan more about the "English humor" i have one to share (i just copy & paste: A family of mice were surprised by a big cat. Father Mouse jumped and said, "Bow-wow!" The cat ran away. "What did he said, Father?" asked Baby Mouse. "Well, son, that's why it's important to learn a second language." i hope you find it useful..i wished i could help you in some way..if you have another way to learn English, please share. 88

Things that bother me well as the title says..there are always that bother us..in my case there are 2 things, the first one is when i clean the living room and then my mom or sister leave the cigarette ashes in the ashtray wherever they are....and the second thing is when people don't keep their promise..i mean..if u're not gonna keep it..just don's say "i promise i will"..what are the things that bother you??

Just to share music information hi everyone!! last week i "discovered" a singer hehe well he's already well known i think, but i've just known about him..anyway..the point is that he's fabulous!! he's not so handsome, and not so hot (for girls) but he's just a good singer (in my opinion) his name is Jason Mars..ohh his songs are so cool!! melody and letters are just awesome!! his new single is "Grenade" omg when i heard that song i just wanted to "catch a grenade..and die" :s well that's too much..but i really love it!! One friend of mine here in italki talked me about a guy "Van Ness Wu" omg!! he IS handsome & hot!! (Thank you friend!!) i know he may be very well known in asia, but the thing is i'm on the other side and haven't heard about him until yesterday.. Well if you wanna share something i'm open to keep discovering new talents :)

karina's notebook entry: Oct 10, 2010 ok..now i want to talk about movies..what's your favorite one?? mine is "finding nemo" oh!! i really loved that movie..and also "toy story 2" that one made me cry =( i dont remember another one but i like those kind of movies..i hope you can tell me yours..anyway have a nice day =) 88

karina's notebook entry: Oct 06, 2010 ok..just to make others to know something about me, i like scary movies..i love people who make me laugh, but at the same time i like to know stories that scare me hehe so, if someone knows some good story can add me to msn [email protected] and tell me =) thank you