11.20 Does "loneliness" is good ? I have heard a lot of says about it ,good or not .the most two opinions I'v remembered is " loneliness can kill people " and " loneliness is a normal status of life " . The first one support that comminucation is human’s instinct.if we are deprived of right of communication then what can be result of ? As we can see in prison ,satying alone in box is used as a ponishment to those who betray rules .And in a relationship, when you make your gf unhappy, deliberately or accidentally ,“cold violance " always happens.It is a mentale abuse unless you want break up already. So loneliness can kill people ,or late or early. But the second opinion argue that when you alone you can have more time for pleasing youself ,and it is important to have deep thinking always .you dont need bother to spend time in dealing with those meaningless things . Loneliness in chinese is "Gu Du" ,the first " Gu" means alone and the " Du" means independence, so there are someone say " Gu" is a typical negative,so you should be " Du" instead of 'Gu". hmmmm........... I'm not sure .but I guess loneliness was forced at first .