do you think the two people in Titanic really loved each other? do you think the feeling between them was "love" or just "passion"?? do you think true love can happen within 4 days?

i have a question about how men and women work differently.. So if two people are in a relationship, the man feels upset about certain things, the woman feels upset about other things, so as a result, when he/she is upset and talk with the other person about what upsets them, they can never feel like they're truly understood, because what seems like a big deal to him/her might just seems like something small to the other person. So if A is upset and B is upset too but only because of the fact that A is upset, not because he/she can actually feel what's the other person is going through, or truly feeling sorry for what happened, but just like : i'm sorry you're so upset. Do you think these two people would work well in a relationship? or is it a common problem between men and women. because maybe men and women are generally bothered by different things.should i just feel like i'm with the wrong one if this is happening??lol

AMERICAN PEOPLE!!!!how do you use "dude"?? I have a question for people from the US..do you say "dude" to your boyfriend/girlfriend??or is it something too buddy to say??

A Question about Tv show hosts do you think that talk shows on TV should lead a certain trend in people's values??like the hosts would imply certain values in a Tv show sometimes..and do you think that in your country Tv show hosts think they're better than the guests in the show or something,so they kinda just boss around in a show, or have a higher position ??? i'm asking this because a chinese young woman who's studies in New Zealand for three years was on this job searching TV show looking for jobs , where there were 12 big company bosses and she wasn't perfect at first and something she said about heroic doublet or shakespear pissed the host off, so he gave her a really hard time because he thought she was rude, and in the end she ended up being really embarrassed and didn't get any job..

a question about looking for jobs so if you are looking for your first internship while you're still in college, it's like a serious kind of internship that might help you get an actual job, do you think your parents should try to help if they had some kind of relationships/connections that might be able to help you??

why do women expect security from men in a relationship? it seems like when women in a relationship they think it's the man's responsibility to make them feel secure. But if the woman has a busy life that means a lot to her and makes her feel happy and proud about herself, then she shouldn't need to worry about not having a guy in her life.Because she doesn't NEED him to make her feel worthwhile. She would be her own source of happiness and security that way. Isn't it how it's supposed to be anyways? Expecting other people to make you feel a certain way is like giving your own responsibility to make you feel happy and secure to others. I think from this point it's unhealthy and irresponsible. However i'm a woman myself and sometimes i tend to be confused. What do you think?

anyone that has listened to "she" by Elvis Costello?? anyone that has listened to "she" by Elvis Costello? what do you think of the song?? what about a relationship described in the song???do you think it's healthy to say "the meaning of my life is she"?? isn't that identifying oneself through another person????

what do you think that's the One word that has changed the world?改变了世界的一个字？ 电，火之类的就算了。改变了世界的一个word,比如terror,之类的。有些哲理或者思考在其中的。。谢谢！ please don't say "fire" or "electricity", words like "terror" would be a good idea. philosophical thinking or deep thoughts involved are welcome! Thank you!!!

For People in HongKong I was in Hongkong for the last week,and when i was in the subwayy station underground one day,a guy stopped me in a crowd of people and asked me to take a few steps with him away,then he showed me his working indenty card,he was a cop,and he said he was worried abt me that i might be 非礼？i was in my formal suits and nothing was wrong abt what i was wearing.he said it was part of his job duty to remind of those that might have that happen to them.So is that true?that Hongkong police look out for ladies in the subway station?