Love is all about 4 things Love is all about 4 things, communication, equality, compromise, forgiveness. It will never works out without any of them. Communication, is to let two different people get to know each other's mind. We were all lonely individuals when we came to this world. There will never have two exactly same people. The way we act, we think is totally different. So without expressing, how are others supposed to know what the hell is in your head? And by the way, when all of us grow old, we lose our beautiful face, maybe unable to move around, no energy to go to play or travel or something else, how can we stay together to spend rest of our lives? So to find a communicative lover could solve all problems. Equality, is to put yourself in a same position as your lover is. Many girls think they are weaker, they are supposed to receive special treatment. They cry, shout, blame or snub once they feel uncomfortable. They think their mate couldn't understand. They take all things that men are doing good to them for granted. It's interesting that male and female have different view in many things. I'm not judging. But my point of view to girls is, there's no superman in this world. And men are more like children when they fall in love. It's more like a story about slave and slaveholder when your relationship is without equality. Compromise, is to shut up when arguing and considering how much it means if you win then tolerate. It's not losing, it's a kind of winning. Because you make your mate know you love him more. Of course it's not a shame to show more care in relationship. One of my friend said, it's so difficult to show her care and love to her bf, because it makes her feel that she is a loser in their relationship, she might get hurt afterall. I told her, will you feel better if he hurts you without knowing how much you love him? Of course you won't. Because your feeling for him wouldn't change no matter you tell him or not. I bet he will more value this relationship after knowing all. Relationship is not a war, so what are you fighting for? Compromise, is definitely not losing. Forgiveness, is to forgive each other's fault and flaws. No one is perfect in this world. We are human beings. At least, it's nearly impossible to find a meant-to-be person which's made for you. He would do things annoy you, anger you, misunderstand you, even disgust you. It seems like he's not the one, and maybe you would give up. But trust me, same story