naked marriage ,pros and cons

Naked marriage : stripping away the material protection
As a famous television show called “ naked marriage” prevails across China ,particularly among the post-80s ,a majority of who favor getting naked marriage rather than preparing the so-called necessities and rites ,covering a fancy house ,a luxurious car ,and of course ,a grant ceremony is of great necessity .
First and foremost ,naked marriage , on the contrast to the traditional value of marriage , breaks up the constraints of prioritizing material ,hence , it ignores the core concept of marriage that deeply loved couples resolve to establish a family together to tackle the twists and turns with which they are confronted in a society where the price is soaring at the unprecedented rate ,the ever-changing competitiveness of the peer drives the youth to work extremely arduously and the stress they have to deal with is largely on the rise . On the one hand ,naked marriage reduce the pressure from the society the youth are anxious about everyday ,on the other hand ,it’s a warning bell for those people to get married for wealth symbolizing the true love .
Secondly , a marriage without necessary provisions would decrease the young people’s stress who work day and night to afford those provisions ,releasing their misery in terms of appealing to their mother-in-law. Statistics have shown , if someone is going to marry a local Shanghai woman ,on the average ,It could cost them at least 300,000 yuan , which is only the beginning of the wedding .Suppose you were going to get married in Beijing and intended to purchase a economic housing in the fourth-ring ,the price is incredible . Just as the winner of Nobel Literature Prize ,Mo Yan ,when someone interviewed him what he planned to spend his 5 million award , “ Probably I could only afford a normal house in the first-ring of Beijing” ,said with jokingly simile ,to which case what he said might be a bit exaggeration, but did reveal that the soaring price of property is highly unaffordable for numerous people who may be a white-collar ,earning 5,000 yuan a month and most of them are actually only earns 2000-3000 according to the National Statistics Bureau ,on the verge of struggling for meeting the ends of living . How on earth could those people afford such marriage as they couldn’t even afford a house ? So , in that way ,many chinese young people may not get a chance to get married .
All in all , when a couple could not afford all the provisions ,naked marriage is of vital choice for them ,not only reduce their pressure but also give both of them to go through the difficulties ,only if they could walk hand-in-hand to tackle the ups and downs in life ,can their love lasts forever.

what does gratitude mean to you? 2 sociaty . Though ,material civilization has undergone tremendous progress, but how about people's spirtual health ? 0ur young generation grown up in a world replete of materialism , have no appreciation or gratitude to what they've received or the nature .therefore ,they feel isolated and unhappy. A large body of recent work has suggested that people who are more grateful have higher levels of subjective well-being. Grateful people are happier, less depressed, less stressed, and more satisfied with their lives and social relationships. Grateful people also have higher levels of control of their environments, personal growth, purpose in life, and self acceptance. Grateful people have more positive ways of coping with the difficulties they experience in life, being more likely to seek support from other people, reinterpret and grow from the experience, and spend more time planning how to deal with the problem. Grateful people also have less negative coping strategies, being less likely to try to avoid the problem, deny there is a problem, blame themselves, or cope through substance use.Grateful people sleep better, and this seems to be because they think less negative and more positive thoughts just before going to sleep. According to the survey conducted by UNSECO ,vwhile many emotions and personality traits are important to well-being, there is evidence that gratitude may be uniquely important. Taking what been argued above into account ,vwe can come to the conclusion that gratitude could largely enhance people's well being and spirtual health.

what does gratitude mean to you? What is gratitude ? Gratitude ,is a kind of psychological state that people hold the firm belief of appreciation in acknowledgment of a benefit that one has received or will receive. i harbor the viewpoint that gratitude is of great signifance of people's well being and spiritual health . Take a look around , people who take everything for granted , usually they look more depressed or miserable ,especially the so-called the 90s generation ,who with have great access to high technology and comfortable life facilities ,however, they often complain that why they cant get what they want ? Why i don't have real friends ? Why everyone is so far away from me and i am so lonely ? It's of no difficulty for us to put forward some possible factors to account for this trend. With the rapid development and advancement of modernization and urbanization in our country , we have made initial success of pursuing moderate prosperous

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