My life experience taught me you have to take decisions for yourselves. Your life is in your own hands and you have to take the responsibility for it. Stop blaming others and stop searching outside. With this approach I can assure you you will start growing. Everyone of us encounters several obstacles and challenges during the path of life. You have two choices: the first one is based on comfort, here you search the solution for these challengese out of you and, if something go wrong, you will find the culprit among other people or you will blame external circumstances. The second choice is strictly connected with yourself, with both your abilities and your weaknesses. In this area you will find space for real growth and, also if you are insecure at the beginning, in the end you will be glad of having choose the difficult path! Thank to everyone who will read this!