My country is very diverse so here, I’ll share about the culture of the state I belong to - Haryana:
- We never visit friends or relatives empty-handed as it is considered rude. Even something simple like a box of sweets is expected.
- Traditional clothing is still very common, especially during festivals, weddings, and family visits. Women wear outfits like Daaman, Kurti, and Chunder or sarees. In small towns, many women still follow the ghoonghat tradition, which is covering their head with a veil in front of elders or guests.
- Hospitality is a big deal. Guests are welcomed like family. It’s not unusual for relatives to stay for a week or more, and the host makes sure they’re well-fed and comfortable
- We live in a community-first culture. Friends and family can drop by anytime, even unannounced. Life is more about “we” than “me.”
- In smaller towns and villages, home-cooked food is the norm. Most places don’t have restaurants or cafes, so fresh meals made at home are part of everyday life. Some of traditional Haryanvi dishes are bajra roti, singri, parval or kachri sabzi, hara saag, bathua raita, lassi etc. (idk their names in english)
- During winters, it was a norm in most Haryanvi families to prepare sweets like churma, gond ke laddu and khoya barfi at home.
- My family is pure vegetarian, and that’s quite common in our state.
- Most homes have a small Hindu shrine, and we start the day with a small puja
- Chai (especially masala chai) is a must for every guest. Even if you’re visiting for just a few minutes, you’ll be offered tea, and saying no feels almost rude.
