Disciplining a child is a very interesting topic, i just imagine this is my son.
it's unlike discipline myself but my offspring. I am sure it is easier to push or control children to follow instruction in their early age. It is all because parents are children's world and children loves parents whatever they do.
In this unparalleled relationship, parents can give strict instruction for their children to do homework, participate extra activities and get a good grade in academic result.
However, children may change attitude when they grow up if they feel overpressure in life. For some cases, these children may not have strong sense of purpose because they already get used to following people's instruction. The lack of self motivation will hinder children's future.
Therefore, i try not to give too much pressure for my son because i didn't expect him to be anyone. Only if i do well for myself that can influence the children, this concept is a risk and i think life is a adventure.
I will try to netvigate my son to my direction but don't have to follow it completely. I accept his rejection and i admit that it will be disappointment.
I believe that only my son have a sense of purpose can help him life long. I dont know if i can help but i have hope. This is a risk to let go but i accept the risk.
Thank you