Because of the way this is said I think it is probably a sarcastic comment. I don't think I've ever heard someone say this in a non-sarcastic way.
They're implying that they aren't actually "a ball of fun". I expect they mean that the person is being a bit of a "downer", a bit boring, or a bit a bit depressing.
For example:
A: Everything is rubbish and the world is terrible.
B: Well, aren't you just a big ball of fun.
It could be used non-sarcastically but the "well, aren't you" part is a big give away that it is sarcastic.
A similar response would be:
- Well, you're just a joy aren't you.
You can usually tell it's sarcastic from the deadpan way it's said.