Stop judging other people. That will solve all your problems!

I think we always evaluate other people, forming our opinion of them, who is who. I don't think this means we pass judgment on people. My advice is you be careful with the person who likes to be bossy. Never let him to push you around. I know, it's easier said than done. Be sort of otherworldly, or indifferent, or one who doesn't care, what is more fit to your temper, but try to keep your independence. You maybe going to have a hard time, but you should hold on, life is life.