To be honest, the only part of this sentence which is clear is the word 'about' ! ;) It's not clear what you mean by 'rub my face', nor is it clear what you mean by 'upset-minded'. Neither expression means anything much in English. Do you mean something like 'She always gets angry with me?' or 'She always teases me?' And do you mean 'absent-minded'?

The normal expression is "rub it in" e.g. she always rubs it in about how absent-minded I am