In context of the paragraph from which you have highlighted this sentence, The author is simply referring to the action she takes while teaching her mother to read and speak English.
In the previous sentence, the author mentions that she feels guilty when sewing her mother's words together. This most likely refers to the sense of discomfort when correcting her mother's usage of words in the English language.
Then we come to the main sentence "Sometimes I let the brokenness slide to spare her pride” this means sometimes I overlook the errors in her words to not make her feel ashamed.
"But perhaps I have hurt her more to spare mine" meaning I point her errors more than I ignore it so I do not feel ashamed of my mother's use of the English language.
So put it together, we can say that the Author teaches her mother how to use the English language. During her teaching sessions, she sees errors in her mother use of words. Although she ignores some of her mother's errors so as to not make her feel ashamed, she points out more of these errors because she is more afraid of feeling ashamed of her mother's English literacy than her mother feeling ashamed