there r many words dont understand like: life up,pasted on,uptake,gleep speech authority. Life up your smiles. Smile with your eyes. Nobody likes an artificial, pasted-on, rubbery smile. When you smile, smile. Show a few teeth. Maybe your teeth aren't attractive, but that's really unimportant. For when you smile, people don't see your teeth. They see a warm, enthusiastic personality, someone they like. Life up your uthank yous." A routine, automatic uthank you" is almost like saying "gleep, gleep." It's just an expression. It says nothing. It doesn't accomplish results. Make your "thank you" mean uthank you very much." Life up your talk. Dr. James F. Bender, the noted speech authoritY. in his excellent book How to Talk Well, says, UIs your 'Good morning!' really good? Are your 'Congratulations!' enthusiastic? Does your 'How are you?'· sound interested? When you make a habit of coloring your words with sincere feelings you'll notice a great uptake in your ability to hold attention."