hi amanda, first, you've got to understand that when it comes to grammar, chinese syntax is different from english syntax (order of wordings in a paragraph). I've noticed that when you write your questions here, they are basically patterned in chinese syntax, are they not? "Grammar is put me mad, have what good method" can be: "Grammar is making me mad (or crazy), what could be a good method to learn it." here's a good link to learn the basic english grammar pattern: http://www.englishmistakeswelcome.com/sentence_patterns.htm :)

Hi Amanda, this Italki site will help you. You need to check first to see how much English grammar you know. Go to http://www.italki.com/knowledge/page/ENGLISH%20GRAMMAR.htm

•Step 5 Translate from your native language into English. When you write or speak your own thoughts, it's easy to avoid complicated grammar. When you translate, you have to work with whatever is on the page, even if the grammar is difficult. Start translating simple things like advertisments and then move to newpapers and magazine articles. Translating dialog in plays is another good way to practice. •Step 6 Ask native speakers for advice. If you know any native English speakers, ask if they could check some of your writing now and then. If there are no native English speakers near you, look online for language learning forums or language exchange sites. Just remember if the native speaker is not a teacher, he or she may not be able to explain grammar rules.

Grammar can be very difficult. Follow these steps and keep working at it. •Step 1 Make a plan. Try to get an overview of English grammar from a text book or online resource. Note the grammar points you need to work on and plan to work on each for at least a few day. •Step 2 Identify common mistakes. People who speak the same language often make the same mistakes in English grammar. For example, many Russian speakers have trouble using "a" and "the" in English. Find out what grammar points are often difficult for speakers of your native language. Pay extra attention to learning those grammar points. •Step 3 Find some grammar exercises. To learn English grammar well, you'll need to practice each grammar point until you can use it easily. Look for a book of grammar exercises that also has answers. Online activities and quizzes can also help. Focus on just one grammar point each time you study. •Step 4 Pay close attention to grammar when you read English. When you're trying to learn correct English grammar, it's not enough to understand general idea of what you read. You'll need to understand exactly why each sentence is written that way. When you read a sentence, ask yourself if can make similar sentences. If you can't or you're not sure, find text book exercises for those grammar points and practice.