I liked 李汉伦 's translations. Saves the rest of us from typing! Thanks for the vote of confidence, but my translations are actually often quite poor. lol I think there is only two that I would translate differently. 3. 一个人最大的缺点 ， 不是自私 ， 野蛮 ，任性 ， 而是偏执的爱着一个不爱自己的人 。 A person's biggest weakness is not being selfish, nor is it being barbaric, nor is it being headstrong either, but rather insisting on (stubbornly) loving someone who does not love himself/herself. 4. 不要做女强人 ，要做 强女人 Don't (need to) be a successful career woman. You need to be a strong woman.

1. Even if the guy you (are with / have your eyes on / are interested in) is amazing, perfect in every way, you will never be able to change the fact that he doesn't love you. OR If he doesn't love you, you will never be able to change that fact. 2. When you break up don't cry. I'm not asking you not to cry at all, just don't cry infront of him / her. Once their back is turned, cry as much as you like / cry your eyes out. 3. A person's biggest downfall is not selfishness, to be uncivilized or unrestrained, it is to (stubbornly) love a person that doesn't love them back. 4. Don't stride to be a powerful woman, stride to be an amazing woman. 5. In time you can understand love, you can also prove love. Time is also all you need to discredit it. 6. You can be vain, it's in a womans nature to do so. Just never become the instrument of anothers vanity. 蛮难的。 建议你找Dark Panther翻译一下。