As l know, the procedure of the traditional wedding customs is the proposal( the third person notice this proposal to girls parents, to inquire the lunar birthday( the fortune teller will match the coupes lunar birthday, they are a good match or what), to dispatch deposit as gold accessories as a necklace and ring , to dispatch balance as things and money that girls parents require( now days the girls parents most require man should have a own house), wedding. When I have write here, I think you already freak out.