Make sure you have or develop the same characteristics you admire in a wife. 

Correction: Advice is a noun, while advise is a verb. So you should say "Please advise in English"

Why do you want a wife to build your better life. Surely it's up to you to build your own better life. Why? let the (new) wife do all the work while you sit at home on the sofa being waited on hand and foot, sipping beer and watching TV?.

That should hopeful liven up the discussion.