Nobody can really understand the feeling of raising a child unless they have ever held a child . I would not suggest anyone raise a child or not although I regard to raise a child is happy anyway . To raise a child can enrich your life in my thinking . Somebody would not agree my notion as there are too many trivials to happen like leakage, crying , awake in the midnight etc .  It is my personal experience only . No matter other people's views , you had better think it over if you are geared up for having a baby to care . I am afraid you need to judge whether you want to have a baby or not . According to your former statement , you still embrace dreams for your upcoming life , and then , I think it is not the good time to have a baby at this moment . Think it thoroughly and do it without a shadow of a doubt.

Nobody but you can answer this question. It's your life so stop looking at others and comparing what you have and don't have. I'm 25 and yes, lots of my friends are getting married, having children, settling down etc. But that's not what I want for my life - I want to travel, see the world, complete my bucketlist before I will even consider having children. People have children later and later in life now and it's perfectly acceptable. I feel no pressure from society to conform - in fact, I reject it. My parents support what I'm doing (my mother does not want to be a grandmother!) and anyone I choose to spend the rest of my life with must understand it as well. I know for a fact that if I had children now, without doing everything I wanted to do, I would resent them and not be the best mother I could be. I have had partners in the past who have wanted me to stay in the UK and spend the rest of our lives there. But as I said to them, I didn't learn foreign languages to sit in one place. There are 200 countries out there and I want to see as many as possible. Also, when I do have children, I want them to be able to travel as well, how could I do that with the knowledge that I never did it myself? I believe everything I'm doing now will one day lead me to be a better parent and I'm good with that :)

I believe to have a child is a great responsability. I'm 26 years old and i decided to have a dog instead, because i'm not ready yet. One needs to be mature enough to raise a child the best way as posible. Besides, I'm a busy person, so I don't have time to take care of a kid as much as I could. I would like to have one later, maybe when I'm 34 or something.

By the way, all depends on your dreams or goals in life. My dream is to be free until that age; enjoy my friends, my family, my job and my freedom as long as i can lol.

Greetings.

Ideally, when a couple is married, and committed to providing the child with love and care.

Say - if God give a children , God give and money for cildren