How many cups of tea do you have? I don't remember where I read this, "At this right moment, there are more than 20000 people in the world that you probably love." So maybe people need not to feel guilty when they encounter two or more of them at the same time. We have all read fairy tales that the prince and princess led a happy life thereafter as the end. But we know, it is not the end, it is the beginning. Is marriage a problem about who you met first? To love only one all one's life is beautiful, but not reasonable, right? It is not humanitarian to suppress people's nature, especially their longing for love. But it also says, every sin stems from desire for getting better. Is life a totally paradox compound?