Today, my Mom came to visit us and we had a long sincere talk. As a result, I ended up in a hurry to finish my daily tasks. Interestingly, at that time, I realized that the more I learn, the more things there are that I need to learn. If you feel overwhelmed, you will loss?? and if you can get over it, you win (over yourself in keeping discipline). I don't understand your last sentence. Could you explain what it means? "Tender" is not a word we normally use to describe a conversation with anyone except perhaps a baby or a lover.

Today, my Mom came to visit us and I had a long and hearty talk with her. And as a result, I had to hurry to finish all my daily tasks. Interestingly, it was at that time that I realized that the more I learn, the more I need to learn. If you feel overwhelmed, you will lose but if you can get over it, you'll win (against yourself, by keeping/staying disciplined). Be careful not to confuse the verb "to lose" and the noun "a loss"